This is probably only the second time I have logged on in ten days. My wife has been suffering with severe back pain for a couple of months. We finally got her an appointment with a neurosurgeon NEXT MONTH. This blasted virus has so disrupted every part of decent civilization. Anyway, Saturday the 13th she complained of being extremely cold (78 F outside) and was shaking uncontrollably. Thinking it may be coming from the back I called 911 and had her transported to a hospital (at least that is what their sign says, that is another story altogether). They did some CAT scans and discovered a severe infection of the kidney/bladder area. They also discovered some thickening of the adrenal gland and some malformation of the lymph nodes in that area. Long story short she has been diagnosed with cancer around the kidney. They also performed an endoscopy and discovered two ulcers. Right now we are waiting for results of a bone scan to see if there is any correlation between the cancer and her back pain. Once all that is done they will develop a treatment plan. The wife and I discussed it and our decision is to transfer her to another hospital, closer to home, less crowded, and I hope a better organized operational staff. So, not knowing what is coming down the road I will probably not be on as much as I would like. SHE is the most important part of my life right now and I am going to do everything I can to get her well - GOD willing.
Rick, we are very sorry for your misfortune, and you both have our prayers, thoughts and best wishes. Hope everything will go well.
The models will wait.
John and Anne
Sorry to here all of this! Hang in there. Best hopes and wishes coming from here!
Rett
Stay strong for your wife...she really needs you to be so....hang in there and best hopes and wishes
Sorry to hear Rick! Hope you both find a relief soon!!
Just an update and not a very pleasant one. Since this post, my wife has had a partial PET scan, she could not endure the complete scan because of back pains. The partial scan showed three tumors on the spine, one pressing dangerously close to the spinal cord. It also showed tumors/lesions on her sternum, scapula, clavicle, two ribs, and sacral bone, as well as spots on her liver, lungs, and the already known areas around the kidneys. We have begun radiation against the biggest tumor on the spine, and will continue with whatever treatments are available. However the oncologist has not given us a very positive prognosis. Praying for the best, preparing for whatever comes next.
oh, wow.....
Prayers to you AND especially your wife!!
Your second family is pulling for you and the wife.
Sorry to hear this, Rick. Prayers and thoughts for you both.
Understand completely what you are going through Rick. Prayers for both you and your wife and we are always here for you my friend.
Al
What's already been said Rick! We're thinking, praying, pulling for you both!!
Well, the inevitable has been realized, the cancer has grown more rapidly than we anticipated and I had to put her into hospice this evening. Doctor is giving her several days to a few weeks. Need prayers, thanks.
I will keep you and your wife in my prayers.
Stay strong Rick, I will be praying for your strength.
Bob
Sorry to hear Rick. Hope she doesn't suffer long. Prayers out to you and your family.
So sorry to hear this Rick. We will keep you both in our prayers. May He give you both peace.
So sorry to hear this.....
Keeping both of you in my prayers.
Thanks guys, this means a lot to me.
My beautiful wife of 38 years passed to her heavenly reward this morning at 11:00 a.m.
You are in our thoughts & prayers Rick!
Yes.
Sorry to hear Rick that she passed but shes in a better place. Prayers out to you.
I am sorry to hear of the passing of your wife......thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time of grief and loss.